Why Expectation Determines Whether Abundance Shows Up

What if the reason abundance hasn’t shown up yet is because, deep down, you never expected it to?

Not hoped for it. Not wished for it. Expected it. That subtle difference is everything. This is the deeper truth behind Point 1 from Chapter 5 – Expect an Abundance in You Were Born Rich by Bob Proctor and it explains why effort alone never creates lasting results.

Expectation Shapes Results

Bob Proctor teaches that expectation is not passive optimism. It is a mental set point. Your subconscious mind and behavior are always organizing around what you expect to happen, not what you say you want. If you expect: Struggle → you act cautiously. “Just enough” → you play small. Delays → you hesitate. Disappointment → you protect yourself. But when you expect abundance, something shifts internally. You notice opportunities you once overlooked. You take action with less hesitation. You allow good things to stay instead of pushing them away. Expectation becomes a quiet instruction to the mind: “This is normal for me.” The subconscious works tirelessly to make the expected feel real.

Proctor’s insight is simple, but profound: You don’t rise to the level of your desires. You settle into the level of your expectations.

How This Relates Directly to Think and Grow Rich

Napoleon Hill taught the same principle decades earlier in Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill, using the language of faith. Hill defined faith as: “A state of mind which may be induced by autosuggestion.” But faith, as Hill describes it, is not emotional hope. It is expectation emotionally accepted as truth.

Here’s the alignment: Proctor explains that expectation programs results. Hill explains that faith programs expectation. Hill insisted that when a person repeatedly impresses an idea on the subconscious with emotion, the mind begins to anticipate the result. That anticipation becomes behavior. That behavior produces outcomes. Expectation is faith made practical.

Without expectation: Autosuggestion feels empty. goals feel distant, and success feels accidental.

With expectation: Action becomes natural, confidence stabilizes, and results feel inevitable.

Why Most People Struggle with Expectation

Because expectation is learned early. Most people were taught to lower expectations to avoid disappointment. Be “realistic” instead of hopeful and expect problems before solutions. So even when they set goals, they secretly expect things to go wrong. Proctor would say: The mind is simply obeying the program it was given. Hill would call this: Negative autosuggestion. Different words. Same cause.

Would Studying With a Group Be Helpful?

Yes. Expectation is socially conditioned.

1. A Group Raises What Feels Normal: When everyone around you expects limitation, abundance feels unrealistic. In a study group growth is discussed openly, success is normalized, and expansion feels reasonable. Expectation expands in the right environment.
2. A Group Interrupts Scarcity Thinking: Left alone, old mental habits replay quietly. Studying together brings limiting assumptions into the open where they can be examined, challenged, and replaced.
3. A Group Reinforces Faith Through Understanding: Expectation isn’t blind belief; it’s understanding how laws work. Studying Think and Grow Rich and You Were Born Rich together strengthens logical confidence, not just emotional hope.
4. A Group Helps You Practice Expectation: Expectation grows through repetition. Group discussion, shared insights, and consistent study make abundance feel familiar rather than foreign.

A Line Worth Sitting With

“What you expect, you prepare for. What you prepare for, you receive.”

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